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Ordinary work, which is what most of us do most of the time, is ordained by God every bit as much as is the extraordinary. All work done for God is spiritual work and therefore not merely a duty but a holy privilege.
- Elisabeth Elliot

HomeLife, Otto Fox Wilder

chipped nails and stacks of mail and practicing my mom skills all over again

Those are two things that bother me. Stacked mail.Chipped fingernail polish. The mail, staring at me and demanding that I take action, makes me feel like I’m running behind and…

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Affiliate, Field Trip, Story

Paris: Our Trip & Tips

It didn’t begin with a lifelong goal of seeing the Eiffel Tower. It started with an email alert. “Low cost fairs from Asheville to Paris” It was an update from…

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HomeLife, HomeSchooling, Product Review

Colorku: A Timberdoodle Review

This is a sponsored post. I received this item from Timberdoodle in exchange for an honest review. These thoughts and words and opinions are, as always on this page and…

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  • God's Pursuit of Me

    Read This

    / May 3, 2009

    Read this …… it’s better than anything I could put up here anyway. All this is flashy rhetoric about loving you.I never had a selfless thought since I was born.I am mercenary and self-serving through and through;I want God, you, all friends, merely to serve my turn. Peace, reassurance, pleasure are the goals I seek,I cannot crawl one inch outside…

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    five finds friday (dates with otto & beaded earrings & friends)

    November 8, 2019

    Five Finds Friday (face cream, Community and Carlos)

    September 11, 2020

    weekend ramble (fly tying edition)

    January 28, 2019
  • London Eli Scout

    The Peacemaker

    / April 23, 2009

    It is both curious and humbling to watch your children develop traits and characteristics on their own. London Eli is growing into quite the Peacemaker or Conflict-Avoider. She seems to be always keeping her eyes open for opportunities to smooth over situations between her siblings before conflicts get out of hand. At a recent lunch at the lodge, after Bergen…

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    Thanksgiving Tables …

    November 21, 2022

    oh, the month ahead. and the month now.

    April 28, 2023

    Juliet’s School of Possibilities: A Book Review

    September 17, 2019
  • HomeLife

    What’s That?

    / April 21, 2009

    After church Sunday I had to stop at the grocery store and I knew every little person in the car was hungry and that by the time we got home it would be later than our normal lunch time. No one likes that – right? And I didn’t feel like creating some great meal nor did I want to drive…

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    an ode to not making time to write: and it’s not okay

    October 31, 2019

    Five Finds Friday (meatballs, Scrabble, really odd names for kids)

    January 31, 2020

    camping with the boys: lake jocassee is a wonder, but what happened to the hammocks?

    August 12, 2020
  • Bergen Hawkeye

    Happy Birthday Bergen

    / April 20, 2009

    Bergen turned four this weekend. Celebrating with Bergen Hawkeye . . . . – When you tell him “happy birthday” he responds by saying, “Happy Birthday!” – Kevin made him his own special Wolverine claws. Quite an undertaking, but well-appreciated. – After his birthday party, Bergen would thank his guests by shouting “THANK YOU FOR COMING” through a mouthful of…

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    five finds friday (fried dough, there is no fashion to be found, the woods are still magical)

    May 1, 2020

    Five Finds Friday.

    September 4, 2020

    five finds friday (superstore, fly fishing, sloppy joes)

    January 3, 2020
  • Chaos,  Keiglets

    This is My Day

    / April 17, 2009

    Everyone was playing happily outside. It was so nice and quiet inside. I should have known better. After all these years and all these kids . . . . I should have known better.

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    back of a book, on the porch

    October 2, 2019

    Six Steps to Hiking & Adventuring With Kids

    July 3, 2019

    going dark . . .

    June 24, 2019
  • God's Pursuit of Me,  Piper Finn Willow

    Poop and Potential

    / April 13, 2009

    Every morning it is my privilege to enter little Willow’s room to give her a good morning kiss and hug and to see her sleepy, sweet eyes light up when I enter the room. And nearly every morning the same smell and the same words greet me as I enter her domain. “Poo Poo,” she declares, pointing to her itsy…

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    weekend ramble (the wrong date. the wrong time. the right pants.)

    April 22, 2019

    Five Finds Friday (boots, of course, and pretty drinks and a book update)

    August 6, 2021

    Snap.Shot.

    July 14, 2022
  • God's Pursuit of Me,  HomeLife,  Mosely Ella Claiborne

    Weeping May Occur

    / April 10, 2009

    I wrote this when Mosely was but a younger lass, moving from her beloved crib to her big girl bed. When reading the Bible I often find certain verses that I think apply directly to my own children. Sometimes I chuckle to myself at the verse’s real intention and the intent I jokingly like to apply to it. “Whoever loves…

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    close to midnight/ sisters

    July 29, 2019

    parenting reminds me I need Jesus

    November 26, 2019

    weekend ramble (fishing, manicures and Noonday)

    February 18, 2019
  • Story

    Never Say Never

    / April 8, 2009

    I always told my English students to avoid using cliches in their writing. I accused cliches of sounding predictable and boring. I encouraged my young aspiring writers to strive for fresh words and intelligence in their writing styles. Don’t misunderstand me here – I thoroughly believe that avoiding cliches in writing is still good advice. And working to find new…

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    In Praise of Small Homes

    December 14, 2020

    close to midnight/ sisters

    July 29, 2019

    thirty years of July Fourthing.

    July 31, 2019
  • Keiglets

    I Don’t Understand

    / April 6, 2009

    Why does this look like so much fun but imagining fifteen-year-old Riley behind the wheel seem so terrifying? (Okay, so I know the reasons why…….but isn’t it a little alarming how few blinks it takes to get from one stage to the next?)

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    five finds friday – (Congaree, more soup, another Otto saying & sunshine)

    April 12, 2019

    In Praise of Small Homes

    December 14, 2020

    these days ….

    December 7, 2020
  • God's Pursuit of Me,  HomeLife,  London Eli Scout

    Are You Happy?

    / April 5, 2009

    I wrote this piece when London was a toddler. Enjoy. “Are you happy, Mommy?” It’s a question my two and a half year old daughter asks repeatedly throughout the day. I’m not sure where she first heard it or why it has stuck in her mind so. Who can explain the vast intricacies of the toddler mind? Who would even…

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    according to the schedule, there’s no space for that

    January 16, 2019

    five finds friday (bits & pieces)

    March 27, 2020

    Stitch Fix: We Tried It!

    April 2, 2020
  • Piper Finn Willow

    Little Creases

    / April 2, 2009

    The little creases on Piper Finn’s body are one of my favorite things about that kid. You know the creases I am talking about. The one at the wrist. The one at her elbow. The itiest creases surrounding each knuckle on her teeny hands. The crease where her ankle connects to her foot. Her neck creases. I love those little…

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    Weekend Ramble: Les Mis, A Kitten & Daylight Savings Time

    March 9, 2020

    parenting blues

    February 26, 2019

    epiphany: the order of things

    May 9, 2019
  • HomeLife,  Story

    It’s Official – I Am A Parent

    / April 2, 2009

    This is an older piece from the early days ………… When was it that I officially became a parent? Was it when I adopted my first daughter? Was it when I gave birth to my second daughter? Or was it when I licked my finger and rubbed smeared banana off my then seven-year-old daughter’s chin? What about the time I…

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    Five Finds Friday (jewelry, ridiculous emails & oranges)

    January 25, 2019

    Five Finds Friday (a new look, a story that stands the test of time, a t-shirt London designed)

    May 15, 2020

    five finds friday (berg keeps being funny, trip highlights and delicious drinks)

    May 21, 2021
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