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Ordinary work, which is what most of us do most of the time, is ordained by God every bit as much as is the extraordinary. All work done for God is spiritual work and therefore not merely a duty but a holy privilege.
- Elisabeth Elliot

HomeLife

five finds friday (mustaches & embroidery)

If I repeat myself over here week to week, I’m going to ask you all to forgive me. Maybe it’s old age, adult ADHD or too many distractions, but my…

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HomeLife

parenting: the slipping away

Some moments in parenting are profound. Their import is tangibly recognized in the moment. First steps. First words. First day of kindergarten. Getting braces. Having those braces removed. Moving into a…

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HomeLife

a thank you, thirty years later.

I called my dad today. It was a little out of the blue to him. Those sort of calls always worry a parent, it appears, regardless of one’s age. But…

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  • HomeLife

    How To Find Me Now

    / August 29, 2025

    Hello dear friends! There is a treasure trove of story here – photos and memories and bits and pieces of my heart. I’m still writing and sharing. But I’ve tried to make it easier for you (and certainly easier for me) on a new platform. It’s called Substack and you can find it right here. The writing is the same.…

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    is this summer?

    May 28, 2020

    here we go …

    February 3, 2023

    sunday matters.

    April 13, 2020
  • Bergen Hawkeye,  HomeLife

    … typing therapy …

    / June 4, 2023

    I haven’t picked up a pen or logged into a post in over a month. Which, incidentally, means I have not really processed or worked through a solid feeling in about that long either. Who could? Who can? I have never understood people who say, “I have no regrets.” I HAVE A MILLION REGRETS. I regret wasted time and wasted…

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    A Reason for Handwriting: A Timberdoodle Review

    April 15, 2019

    a thank you, thirty years later.

    October 16, 2019
    Gatsby

    Five Finds Friday (puppy. black leggings. muu muus. apple cider.)

    November 12, 2021
  • HomeLife,  HomeSchooling,  Keiglets

    oh, the month ahead. and the month now.

    / April 28, 2023

    If I could draw a picture of me right now, what I feel like somewhere inside, it would probably look a little like some Monet version of me because I feel more like an impression lately than a solid shape. And I’d probably have my hands at my head, maybe pulling my hair in two directions and shouting, “THERE IS…

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    love. (for a concert and a band.)

    February 20, 2019

    five finds friday (funny kids, garish sofas, filthy rocks, twinkling lights)

    March 29, 2019

    five finds friday: Dickens and Twists and a cake baker and a cuddler

    February 15, 2019
  • Affiliate,  Field Trip,  Story

    Paris: Our Trip & Tips

    / April 4, 2023

    It didn’t begin with a lifelong goal of seeing the Eiffel Tower. It started with an email alert. “Low cost fairs from Asheville to Paris” It was an update from my Going account – the same account that helped me take my London to London for her graduation gift last year. It was back in October and the flight was…

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    Losing Time: The Cost of Spontaneity This Week

    August 20, 2020

    five finds friday (my weakness for hair products and my friends Jane & Walter and my kids reading classic novels)

    August 23, 2019

    Wile E. Coyote Science: A Timberdoodle Review

    August 17, 2020
  • Field Trip

    Guatemala: Day Two

    / March 8, 2023

    (Will you be patient with me if these posts take weeks?) It’s another senior season of BUSY. My first baby boy is about to graduate and I cannot allow myself to spend too much time pondering that just yet. And, if you’re counting, that leaves only TWO kids in high school. Our numbers game is weird lately. Back to Guatemala…

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    in between. it’s hard to be a teen. (and a teen’s momma.)

    April 24, 2019

    Thanksgiving Tables …

    November 21, 2022

    Guatemala: Day One

    March 1, 2023
  • Field Trip

    Guatemala: Day One

    / March 1, 2023

    It seems I’ve hardly stopped moving since our plane ride from Guatemala ended and London picked us up late that night at the Greenville airport. (Pretty sure I sat behind Pedro Pascal on one of our flights. I mean, okay. I’m not pretty sure. I’m just pretend sure. It looked like him. Sort of. I can’t explain why he’d be…

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    what day is it? a day late weekend ramble. I guess.

    March 19, 2019

    try this at home

    April 7, 2020

    45.

    May 1, 2019
  • Piper Finn Willow

    friday afternoon thoughts.

    / February 17, 2023

    When I started composing this post in my head, I was in a MOOD and all of the ideas in my mind were very very funny to me. I think the mood has passed. Of course, that mood was likely induced by the physical funk I am still in post-Guatemala trip (I came home with a lovely sort of head…

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    five finds friday. (an unusual candle holder & a great movie)

    July 26, 2019

    the winter feels

    January 11, 2023

    five finds friday (fried dough, there is no fashion to be found, the woods are still magical)

    May 1, 2020
  • HomeLife

    here we go …

    / February 3, 2023

    Well February came up real fast on us now, didn’t it? Over the last few weeks I have: Lived life with five teenagers. Readjusted to having London home again as she begins local college classes. And by readjusted, I actually don’t really mean that. I love having her home and she’s been a fabulous help – dishes and meals and…

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    Should I Stop Homeschooling?

    March 4, 2020

    This Week. Feeling ALL the Pressures.

    December 28, 2020

    hello out there.

    March 19, 2020
  • Bergen Hawkeye,  God's Pursuit of Me,  HomeLife,  HomeSchooling

    you can’t call it a mid-life crisis.

    / January 18, 2023

    I doubt I’m living until I’m 100. (And I’m mostly okay with that.) So I can’t fairly call All The Current Feelings mid-life related. In fact, it is possibly precisely because I recognize that I am no longer mid-life that I am feeling whatever it is I am feeling. Were those sentences helpful? Doubtful. Flannery O’Connor said, “I write because…

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    today. (teens are wonderful wonderful too – PSA)

    July 28, 2021

    weekend ramble (fly tying edition)

    January 28, 2019

    notes from the burrow. not in any particular order.

    March 25, 2020
  • HomeLife

    the winter feels

    / January 11, 2023

    The thing about winter in South Carolina is that it’s not all that different from fall in South Carolina or spring in South Carolina, weather-wise. And that makes me sad. I need some snow. A crisp breeze. A forecast with low temperatures. A chill factor. I know I have chosen to live in the wrong part of the country to…

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    these days ….

    December 7, 2020

    downhill: a commentary on this thing called aging.

    June 29, 2020

    Guatemala: Day One

    March 1, 2023
  • Field Trip

    Going to Guatemala

    / January 3, 2023

    Guess what word is hard to spell? Guatemala. I’ve looked it up and let autocorrect help me way too many times. I think I finally remember that there’s an E after “guat” even though apparently my brain is desperate for it to be an A. Despite that tricky-to-me spelling, Bergen and Piper and I are heading to Guatemala in February.…

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    Paris: Our Trip & Tips

    April 4, 2023

    swimming in the deep end

    October 29, 2019

    a little grief. how the time passes.

    September 18, 2019
  • HomeLife

    that magic moment

    / December 19, 2022

    Imagine you live in a place where snow is a rarity. Say, South Carolina, for example. And you somehow missed the news of the potential snow and the mad dash of Southerners to grab up every loaf of bread and gallon of milk as if we might actually be trapped in our homes by the snow. So there you are.…

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    five finds friday (what do you wear with leggings?)

    December 11, 2020

    five finds friday. (homemade board games, babies & Bergen)

    July 3, 2020

    today. (teens are wonderful wonderful too – PSA)

    July 28, 2021
  • Affiliate,  HomeSchooling

    The Nomadic Professor: A Timberdoodle Review

    / December 15, 2022

    You know the routine. This is a sponsored post. I received this product at no cost to test and to review. But that’s the end. The words and thoughts and opinions are completely my own. _________________ Just like ALL of my own life, homeschooling has shifted and changed in the seasons of our family’s life. I only have older students…

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    five finds friday (there’s beautiful bags and blast from the past soda and kind students)

    April 24, 2020

    five finds friday (may is sort of mean, also there’s a lot about potatoes in this one)

    May 3, 2019

    Five Finds Friday (a whole lot of photos)

    November 6, 2020
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