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Ordinary work, which is what most of us do most of the time, is ordained by God every bit as much as is the extraordinary. All work done for God is spiritual work and therefore not merely a duty but a holy privilege.
- Elisabeth Elliot

HomeLife

the burrow: a dining room tour

In progress. That’s my kitchen and dining room. But – mostly done. Of course, if you know me and my affinity for rearranging furniture and wall spaces and everything in…

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Story

Why The Success of Your Marriage Matters to My Kids

  On Sunday we were honored to have brunch with a dear family and two sweet friends.  Laughter was as abundant around our scratched farm table as was the delicious food.…

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HomeLife

five finds friday (avett. curl cream. views.)

This week I used one of my favorite pens until it actually ran out of ink. I didn’t lose it. I just actually used it to its very literal potential…

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  • HomeLife

    How To Find Me Now

    / August 29, 2025

    Hello dear friends! There is a treasure trove of story here – photos and memories and bits and pieces of my heart. I’m still writing and sharing. But I’ve tried to make it easier for you (and certainly easier for me) on a new platform. It’s called Substack and you can find it right here. The writing is the same.…

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    … typing therapy …

    June 4, 2023

    from the cabin: Bergen Hawkeye at Lost Valley

    June 25, 2019

    five finds friday: Dickens and Twists and a cake baker and a cuddler

    February 15, 2019
  • Bergen Hawkeye,  HomeLife

    … typing therapy …

    / June 4, 2023

    I haven’t picked up a pen or logged into a post in over a month. Which, incidentally, means I have not really processed or worked through a solid feeling in about that long either. Who could? Who can? I have never understood people who say, “I have no regrets.” I HAVE A MILLION REGRETS. I regret wasted time and wasted…

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    weekend ramble (fishing, manicures and Noonday)

    February 18, 2019

    the weekend ramble (it’s back)

    July 27, 2020

    five finds friday (what do you wear with leggings?)

    December 11, 2020
  • HomeLife,  HomeSchooling,  Keiglets

    oh, the month ahead. and the month now.

    / April 28, 2023

    If I could draw a picture of me right now, what I feel like somewhere inside, it would probably look a little like some Monet version of me because I feel more like an impression lately than a solid shape. And I’d probably have my hands at my head, maybe pulling my hair in two directions and shouting, “THERE IS…

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    Guatemala: Day One

    March 1, 2023

    five finds friday (there’s beautiful bags and blast from the past soda and kind students)

    April 24, 2020

    Dear Child,

    July 20, 2020
  • Affiliate,  Field Trip,  Story

    Paris: Our Trip & Tips

    / April 4, 2023

    It didn’t begin with a lifelong goal of seeing the Eiffel Tower. It started with an email alert. “Low cost fairs from Asheville to Paris” It was an update from my Going account – the same account that helped me take my London to London for her graduation gift last year. It was back in October and the flight was…

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    hi.

    December 18, 2019

    Discipline of Gratitude

    February 12, 2019

    An Ode to EB White

    September 14, 2020
  • Field Trip

    Guatemala: Day Two

    / March 8, 2023

    (Will you be patient with me if these posts take weeks?) It’s another senior season of BUSY. My first baby boy is about to graduate and I cannot allow myself to spend too much time pondering that just yet. And, if you’re counting, that leaves only TWO kids in high school. Our numbers game is weird lately. Back to Guatemala…

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    These Is My Words: A Book Review

    November 4, 2019

    five finds friday (finn turns twelve, made for this podcast and mac & cheese)

    August 30, 2019

    that magic moment

    December 19, 2022
  • Field Trip

    Guatemala: Day One

    / March 1, 2023

    It seems I’ve hardly stopped moving since our plane ride from Guatemala ended and London picked us up late that night at the Greenville airport. (Pretty sure I sat behind Pedro Pascal on one of our flights. I mean, okay. I’m not pretty sure. I’m just pretend sure. It looked like him. Sort of. I can’t explain why he’d be…

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    Frye boots

    Five Finds Friday (touring college and of course – boots & tea)

    September 17, 2021

    A Reason for Handwriting: A Timberdoodle Review

    April 15, 2019

    five finds friday (berg keeps being funny, trip highlights and delicious drinks)

    May 21, 2021
  • Piper Finn Willow

    friday afternoon thoughts.

    / February 17, 2023

    When I started composing this post in my head, I was in a MOOD and all of the ideas in my mind were very very funny to me. I think the mood has passed. Of course, that mood was likely induced by the physical funk I am still in post-Guatemala trip (I came home with a lovely sort of head…

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    messy

    April 4, 2019

    This Week. Feeling ALL the Pressures.

    December 28, 2020

    spring madness. it has descended upon us.

    April 21, 2021
  • HomeLife

    here we go …

    / February 3, 2023

    Well February came up real fast on us now, didn’t it? Over the last few weeks I have: Lived life with five teenagers. Readjusted to having London home again as she begins local college classes. And by readjusted, I actually don’t really mean that. I love having her home and she’s been a fabulous help – dishes and meals and…

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    that magic moment

    December 19, 2022

    The July Grove Collaborative Giveaway

    July 11, 2017

    five finds friday (more feelings, an architect’s table I want to find and milk tea)

    July 23, 2021
  • Bergen Hawkeye,  God's Pursuit of Me,  HomeLife,  HomeSchooling

    you can’t call it a mid-life crisis.

    / January 18, 2023

    I doubt I’m living until I’m 100. (And I’m mostly okay with that.) So I can’t fairly call All The Current Feelings mid-life related. In fact, it is possibly precisely because I recognize that I am no longer mid-life that I am feeling whatever it is I am feeling. Were those sentences helpful? Doubtful. Flannery O’Connor said, “I write because…

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    weekend ramble (the stillest of weekends)

    April 8, 2019

    school planning over here …

    July 1, 2020

    that magic moment

    December 19, 2022
  • HomeLife

    the winter feels

    / January 11, 2023

    The thing about winter in South Carolina is that it’s not all that different from fall in South Carolina or spring in South Carolina, weather-wise. And that makes me sad. I need some snow. A crisp breeze. A forecast with low temperatures. A chill factor. I know I have chosen to live in the wrong part of the country to…

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    art

    Cognitive Drawing: A Timberdoodle Review

    July 8, 2021

    Lake Jocassee with the Boys

    August 29, 2019

    five finds friday (the worst jeans you’ll ever see, Otto says something funny and Dolly is the best)

    February 19, 2021
  • Field Trip

    Going to Guatemala

    / January 3, 2023

    Guess what word is hard to spell? Guatemala. I’ve looked it up and let autocorrect help me way too many times. I think I finally remember that there’s an E after “guat” even though apparently my brain is desperate for it to be an A. Despite that tricky-to-me spelling, Bergen and Piper and I are heading to Guatemala in February.…

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    thirty years of July Fourthing.

    July 31, 2019

    Why The Success of Your Marriage Matters to My Kids

    April 17, 2017

    This Age.

    November 15, 2022
  • HomeLife

    that magic moment

    / December 19, 2022

    Imagine you live in a place where snow is a rarity. Say, South Carolina, for example. And you somehow missed the news of the potential snow and the mad dash of Southerners to grab up every loaf of bread and gallon of milk as if we might actually be trapped in our homes by the snow. So there you are.…

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    five finds friday (what do you wear with leggings?)

    December 11, 2020

    five finds friday (mustaches & embroidery)

    December 18, 2020

    one of those . . . weeks

    September 8, 2021
  • Affiliate,  HomeSchooling

    The Nomadic Professor: A Timberdoodle Review

    / December 15, 2022

    You know the routine. This is a sponsored post. I received this product at no cost to test and to review. But that’s the end. The words and thoughts and opinions are completely my own. _________________ Just like ALL of my own life, homeschooling has shifted and changed in the seasons of our family’s life. I only have older students…

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    connections. relationships. education.

    April 20, 2020

    five finds friday (a long winded run down of yesterday and white chicken chili and student success)

    March 22, 2019

    five finds friday. (do you know what else starts with the letter f? flu.)

    March 6, 2020
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