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Ordinary work, which is what most of us do most of the time, is ordained by God every bit as much as is the extraordinary. All work done for God is spiritual work and therefore not merely a duty but a holy privilege.
- Elisabeth Elliot

HomeLife, Keiglets

Five Finds Friday (teen drivers. the first egg.)

This week kind of felt like a million years long because we did ALL of the subjects for school and worked hard to get up on time and to be…

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HomeLife, Story

swimming in the deep end

It all feels like it’s already been said. All the words have been taken. The ones about exhaustion and anxiety. About despair and waiting. The posts about overworking and not…

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Bergen Hawkeye

from the cabin: Bergen Hawkeye at Lost Valley

He doesn’t know I am watching him. My fourteen year old son. I’m on the porch, settled on the porch swing. Basha blanket from home wrapped around me because of…

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  • HomeLife

    How To Find Me Now

    / August 29, 2025

    Hello dear friends! There is a treasure trove of story here – photos and memories and bits and pieces of my heart. I’m still writing and sharing. But I’ve tried to make it easier for you (and certainly easier for me) on a new platform. It’s called Substack and you can find it right here. The writing is the same.…

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    Why The Success of Your Marriage Matters to My Kids

    April 17, 2017

    how do you do it?

    September 4, 2019

    notes from the burrow. not in any particular order.

    March 25, 2020
  • Bergen Hawkeye,  HomeLife

    … typing therapy …

    / June 4, 2023

    I haven’t picked up a pen or logged into a post in over a month. Which, incidentally, means I have not really processed or worked through a solid feeling in about that long either. Who could? Who can? I have never understood people who say, “I have no regrets.” I HAVE A MILLION REGRETS. I regret wasted time and wasted…

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    five finds friday (except it’s four because I ran out of time)

    June 28, 2019

    Five Finds Friday (earrings – of course. more about eggs – I’m sorry. and a film that’s beautiful.)

    September 27, 2019

    the burrow: a dining room tour

    May 15, 2019
  • HomeLife,  HomeSchooling,  Keiglets

    oh, the month ahead. and the month now.

    / April 28, 2023

    If I could draw a picture of me right now, what I feel like somewhere inside, it would probably look a little like some Monet version of me because I feel more like an impression lately than a solid shape. And I’d probably have my hands at my head, maybe pulling my hair in two directions and shouting, “THERE IS…

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    state of the union – or an official sounding title for an unofficial style post

    June 27, 2017

    Five Finds Friday (jewelry, ridiculous emails & oranges)

    January 25, 2019

    that musical everyone loves.

    July 13, 2020
  • Affiliate,  Field Trip,  Story

    Paris: Our Trip & Tips

    / April 4, 2023

    It didn’t begin with a lifelong goal of seeing the Eiffel Tower. It started with an email alert. “Low cost fairs from Asheville to Paris” It was an update from my Going account – the same account that helped me take my London to London for her graduation gift last year. It was back in October and the flight was…

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    connections. relationships. education.

    April 20, 2020

    Guatemala: Day One

    March 1, 2023

    five finds friday (oatmeal cream pies & a little explaining about “that” photo)

    March 12, 2021
  • Field Trip

    Guatemala: Day Two

    / March 8, 2023

    (Will you be patient with me if these posts take weeks?) It’s another senior season of BUSY. My first baby boy is about to graduate and I cannot allow myself to spend too much time pondering that just yet. And, if you’re counting, that leaves only TWO kids in high school. Our numbers game is weird lately. Back to Guatemala…

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    sixteen. a birthday post.

    July 22, 2019

    Discipline of Gratitude

    February 12, 2019

    according to the schedule, there’s no space for that

    January 16, 2019
  • Field Trip

    Guatemala: Day One

    / March 1, 2023

    It seems I’ve hardly stopped moving since our plane ride from Guatemala ended and London picked us up late that night at the Greenville airport. (Pretty sure I sat behind Pedro Pascal on one of our flights. I mean, okay. I’m not pretty sure. I’m just pretend sure. It looked like him. Sort of. I can’t explain why he’d be…

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    This Week. Feeling ALL the Pressures.

    December 28, 2020

    how do you do it?

    September 4, 2019

    Losing Time: The Cost of Spontaneity This Week

    August 20, 2020
  • Piper Finn Willow

    friday afternoon thoughts.

    / February 17, 2023

    When I started composing this post in my head, I was in a MOOD and all of the ideas in my mind were very very funny to me. I think the mood has passed. Of course, that mood was likely induced by the physical funk I am still in post-Guatemala trip (I came home with a lovely sort of head…

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    Five Finds Friday (a song & a rug & senior photos)

    March 26, 2021

    Scary Close: A Book Review (& some feelings this book unearthed as well)

    May 13, 2019
    Timberdoodle puzzle

    U.S. 4D Map Puzzle: A Timberdoodle Review

    March 22, 2021
  • HomeLife

    here we go …

    / February 3, 2023

    Well February came up real fast on us now, didn’t it? Over the last few weeks I have: Lived life with five teenagers. Readjusted to having London home again as she begins local college classes. And by readjusted, I actually don’t really mean that. I love having her home and she’s been a fabulous help – dishes and meals and…

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    five finds friday (except it’s four because I ran out of time)

    June 28, 2019

    downhill: a commentary on this thing called aging.

    June 29, 2020

    five finds friday (there’s beautiful bags and blast from the past soda and kind students)

    April 24, 2020
  • Bergen Hawkeye,  God's Pursuit of Me,  HomeLife,  HomeSchooling

    you can’t call it a mid-life crisis.

    / January 18, 2023

    I doubt I’m living until I’m 100. (And I’m mostly okay with that.) So I can’t fairly call All The Current Feelings mid-life related. In fact, it is possibly precisely because I recognize that I am no longer mid-life that I am feeling whatever it is I am feeling. Were those sentences helpful? Doubtful. Flannery O’Connor said, “I write because…

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    what day is it? a day late weekend ramble. I guess.

    March 19, 2019

    Songs for Singin’: A Long Winded Okee Dokee Brothers Review & Tribute

    May 26, 2020
    Gatsby

    Five Finds Friday (puppy. black leggings. muu muus. apple cider.)

    November 12, 2021
  • HomeLife

    the winter feels

    / January 11, 2023

    The thing about winter in South Carolina is that it’s not all that different from fall in South Carolina or spring in South Carolina, weather-wise. And that makes me sad. I need some snow. A crisp breeze. A forecast with low temperatures. A chill factor. I know I have chosen to live in the wrong part of the country to…

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    WWII Graphic Novels: A Timberdoodle Review

    February 27, 2020

    just recounting a day . . .

    June 20, 2017

    five finds (asleep with a book, love anyway, i like big sinks)

    February 22, 2019
  • Field Trip

    Going to Guatemala

    / January 3, 2023

    Guess what word is hard to spell? Guatemala. I’ve looked it up and let autocorrect help me way too many times. I think I finally remember that there’s an E after “guat” even though apparently my brain is desperate for it to be an A. Despite that tricky-to-me spelling, Bergen and Piper and I are heading to Guatemala in February.…

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    Grill. Master.

    July 7, 2020

    When Buying Local Is So Cute

    May 5, 2020

    evening thoughts or why I can’t get it together this month

    April 12, 2021
  • HomeLife

    that magic moment

    / December 19, 2022

    Imagine you live in a place where snow is a rarity. Say, South Carolina, for example. And you somehow missed the news of the potential snow and the mad dash of Southerners to grab up every loaf of bread and gallon of milk as if we might actually be trapped in our homes by the snow. So there you are.…

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    Five Finds Friday (a song & a rug & senior photos)

    March 26, 2021

    five finds friday. (apple season is the best. and more.)

    August 16, 2019

    My Friend Mary & The Beauty of Showing Up

    April 23, 2019
  • Affiliate,  HomeSchooling

    The Nomadic Professor: A Timberdoodle Review

    / December 15, 2022

    You know the routine. This is a sponsored post. I received this product at no cost to test and to review. But that’s the end. The words and thoughts and opinions are completely my own. _________________ Just like ALL of my own life, homeschooling has shifted and changed in the seasons of our family’s life. I only have older students…

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    Beyond Wildwood: The Ranch (Tuesday)

    June 19, 2017

    you’re worth it.

    January 24, 2019

    five finds friday (fried dough, there is no fashion to be found, the woods are still magical)

    May 1, 2020
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