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Ordinary work, which is what most of us do most of the time, is ordained by God every bit as much as is the extraordinary. All work done for God is spiritual work and therefore not merely a duty but a holy privilege.
- Elisabeth Elliot

HomeLife

cliff’s edges.

There are a lot of ways to fall off a cliff. Metaphorically speaking. (I guess literally too.) Some days I get dangerously close. (I’m rolling with the metaphorical version of…

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HomeLife

downhill: a commentary on this thing called aging.

My daughter texted me, asking if my upcoming birthday next month was the one where I would turn fifty. F I F T Y. My daughter thinks I am turning…

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HomeLife

love. (for a concert and a band.)

Last fall, my friend Karen texted me. “Buy tickets for this show.  You won’t regret it.” These words were followed by a link to purchase tickets to a show at…

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  • HomeLife

    Five Finds Friday (maybe five, maybe four – I can’t guarantee anymore)

    / December 15, 2017

      All of the weeks in December seem speedy beyond reason.  It’s how the time works – right? But we’ve had marvelous quiet evenings home sitting in the living room near the tree’s twinkling lights and you could almost hear our collective sighs at the pleasantness of it.  (Don’t worry – we’ve also had rush here and do this and…

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    Five Finds Friday (Lost Valley Ranch Version)

    June 11, 2021

    five finds friday (what do you wear with leggings?)

    December 11, 2020

    Beyond Wildwood: The Ranch (Tuesday)

    June 19, 2017
  • Book Reviews,  HomeSchooling

    reading and literary journals and your suggestions

    / December 13, 2017

      There’s a lot of details I’ll get wrong in education.  (Same was true when I was employed in mainstream education too.) Ideas shift.  Trends in education rise and fill.  Diagramming sentences matters in one decade, not so much in the next.  I started farming out math to tutors and computer “textbooks” at about the third grade.  Science isn’t my…

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    Going to Guatemala

    January 3, 2023

    a little grief. how the time passes.

    September 18, 2019

    love. via sour dough bread.

    July 25, 2019
  • God's Pursuit of Me,  HomeLife

    parenting.

    / December 11, 2017

      Maybe it’s been my attempts at doing nightly Advent readings during the month of December.  Or the conversations that sneak up on me with my teenagers at bedtime.  The way one of my kids looked at me with genuine surprise when I said I enjoyed the singing of all the songs at church each week – the part of…

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    sacred sabbath & rest for the weary

    September 9, 2019

    evening thoughts or why I can’t get it together this month

    April 12, 2021

    Five Finds Friday.

    September 4, 2020
  • HomeLife

    Five Finds Friday (mailbox surprises & a video)

    / December 8, 2017

      This week feels a little like it’s been two weeks long.  I’d call it a pretty productive week, but also a week with full evenings and sometimes that equals a really tiring week too. Here we are though – at the week’s end with Friday at our door.     funny   This week this text appeared on my…

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    connections. relationships. education.

    April 20, 2020

    a little this, a little that

    October 7, 2020

    Grill. Master.

    July 7, 2020
  • HomeLife

    A Christmas Catch Up (Because I needed one more than you did, I’m sure.)

    / December 7, 2017

      You know what I need? More hours in the day?  Better time management?  Someone to sweep my floor continually?  (How much are those robot vacuum cleaner things?  No – for real.  How much are they?) Maybe I do need those things.  I don’t know.  Maybe I need less distractions.  Or fewer tasks.  Or something.  I don’t know.  It hardly…

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    Timberdoodle puzzle

    U.S. 4D Map Puzzle: A Timberdoodle Review

    March 22, 2021

    parenting reminds me I need Jesus

    November 26, 2019

    When Buying Local Is So Cute

    May 5, 2020
  • HomeLife,  Story

    friendship

    / December 5, 2017

      Even when friends directly say the words to my face, sometimes I have a hard time believing them. Even when those friends are gracious enough to write the words down in a held-in-my-own-hand tangible sort of way, I am tempted to doubt their sincerity. You see, I bring a lot of baggage to a friendship.  Extra drama.  A generous…

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    Five Finds Friday (Lost Valley Ranch Version)

    June 11, 2021

    The newest little human.

    November 18, 2019

    five finds friday. (homemade board games, babies & Bergen)

    July 3, 2020
  • HomeLife

    being okay; being the parent

    / November 29, 2017

      I thought they were all asleep. There were kitchen chores to do.  I turned on some music, lit a candle, rolled up my sleeves and got down to work. Sometimes I like baking in the quiet of the night in my eternally gritty yet somehow cozy little kitchen.  Because I was alone, I sang out loud.  Bits of a…

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    two decades. the last was the growing up. the next will be the growing out.

    January 22, 2020

    hi.

    December 18, 2019

    one of those . . . weeks

    September 8, 2021
  • God's Pursuit of Me,  Story

    The God Who Sees

    / November 27, 2017

      El Roi. It means The God Who Sees. A few years ago the kids and I read a book about the different names of God.  I’ve particularly remembered this name. There are moments I feel seen. Moments I can sense the “being known”.  Through conversation divinely orchestrated.  In a situation so obviously brought about by a grand master plan.…

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    The newest little human.

    November 18, 2019

    weekend ramble (from morning Clemson adventure to evening fancy adventure)

    March 4, 2019

    five finds friday (shower curtains, carnitas, earrings and how I’m either denying reality or crying – so little in between)

    April 30, 2021
  • HomeLife

    the routine of the every day

    / November 21, 2017

      My regular daily routine is pretty, you know, routine. Attempt to rise before my children.  (Though that Mosely is a hard one to wake up earlier than.) Read quietly.  Write a little in a journal.  Check emails and get a touch of work done. Prep breakfast, wake up the remaining sleeping younger kids who do not yet own an…

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    weekend ramble (the wrong date. the wrong time. the right pants.)

    April 22, 2019

    five finds friday (the one about writing a book and my daughter going to college)

    November 20, 2020

    chipped nails and stacks of mail and practicing my mom skills all over again

    July 1, 2021
  • HomeLife

    The Last Few Days – in Photos

    / November 20, 2017

      It’s Monday of a holiday week but you already know that. I tried to fight my urge to stay in bed on these cold mornings and wake up early to greet the day and feel a little more in charge of my life – it’s an illusion I keep trying to maintain in a half-hearted capacity. I have neither…

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    five finds friday (my weakness for hair products and my friends Jane & Walter and my kids reading classic novels)

    August 23, 2019

    parenting at the end of a school year. bless us all.

    May 20, 2019

    weekend ramble (from morning Clemson adventure to evening fancy adventure)

    March 4, 2019
  • HomeLife

    Five Finds Friday (should I buy the boots & a little poetry)

    / November 17, 2017

      When the temperatures drop even slightly, my crew and I become hermits.  We want to sleep late, stay under the covers, hibernate.  It’s just so cozy at home.  Give us all the hot chocolate and thick novels and warm blankets.  It’s hard to get up and go anywhere. But we do force ourselves out of the house from time…

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    Juliet’s School of Possibilities: A Book Review

    September 17, 2019

    one of those . . . weeks

    September 8, 2021

    Scary Close: A Book Review (& some feelings this book unearthed as well)

    May 13, 2019
  • God's Pursuit of Me

    what does repentance look like?

    / November 16, 2017

      I use to think about it a lot. Repentance. That one word.  And all of its connotations. About what it looked like and what it talked like and what it sounded like. I don’t think about it so much any longer. For a whole host of reasons. But the biggest (and the best) reason is this. I don’t need…

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    Timberdoodle puzzle

    U.S. 4D Map Puzzle: A Timberdoodle Review

    March 22, 2021

    A Heart’s Home: Lost Valley Ranch

    June 21, 2020

    Raising Girls: embracing help through Awaken

    August 20, 2019
  • HomeLife

    she prays for us.

    / November 15, 2017

      She sought us out Sunday morning before the service started. Hugged us with genuine affection and greeted each one of my children by name. She was excited – legitimately excited – to see our faces. She told us Tuesday.  Tuesday was the day she prayed for us each – by name. Who knew that would matter so much? And…

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    sacred sabbath & rest for the weary

    September 9, 2019

    five finds friday (except it’s four because I ran out of time)

    June 28, 2019

    five finds (asleep with a book, love anyway, i like big sinks)

    February 22, 2019
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