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Ordinary work, which is what most of us do most of the time, is ordained by God every bit as much as is the extraordinary. All work done for God is spiritual work and therefore not merely a duty but a holy privilege.
- Elisabeth Elliot

HomeLife

Five Finds Friday (Cadbury eggs & impulsive purchases)

I’m supposed to be asleep right now. I’m breaking my own self-imposed rule. But I’ve done a great job every night this week in getting to bed on time. So…

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Bergen Hawkeye, Field Trip, HomeLife, Otto Fox Wilder

Lake Jocassee with the Boys

For birthdays, I love to give experience gifts. And for some time now, it’s been a bit of a tradition for the birthday boy or girl to receive an envelope…

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HomeLife

in between. it’s hard to be a teen. (and a teen’s momma.)

I’m trying to remember. Although I can’t honestly say that I recall it entirely. What it was like to be 12. Or 14. 16.  At odds with my mind and…

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  • HomeLife

    when they asked . . .

    / August 25, 2015

    It was a simple request. “Come dance with us.” But we were so comfortable. The grown ups all lounging on the patio, fire crackling far more for ambience and effigy burning than for warmth or need, relaxing from the overdose of tacos and chocolate cake. And what none of us wanted to do was to get up, to dance. Sitting…

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    pendulum swinger

    March 30, 2020

    five finds friday (shower curtains, carnitas, earrings and how I’m either denying reality or crying – so little in between)

    April 30, 2021

    these days ….

    December 7, 2020
  • Free,  HomeLife,  Product Review

    Ice Pop Makers: A Review & A Giveaway

    / August 24, 2015

    Ah summer. I know we think of summer as ending when the yellow buses start driving the roads and altering our schedules. But the calendar says summer isn’t over until mid September and the day time temperatures haven’t dipped into the 70’s yet so I think we can still treat these days like summer days in a couple of ways.…

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    mid-week ramble. is that a thing?

    September 3, 2020

    downhill: a commentary on this thing called aging.

    June 29, 2020

    five finds friday (funny kids, garish sofas, filthy rocks, twinkling lights)

    March 29, 2019
  • HomeLife,  Keiglets

    Jane Tells Our Story of Family

    / August 21, 2015

    You guys know my friend Jane – right? She is the photographer who had our children all spray one another – and us – with colored dye from squirt guns. We walked around for weeks with pink or green hair. She snapped this sweet shot last summer of me and my girls. Well, Jane is still snapping photos and she’s working…

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    Paris: Our Trip & Tips

    April 4, 2023

    five finds friday. (an unusual candle holder & a great movie)

    July 26, 2019
    Gatsby

    Five Finds Friday (puppy. black leggings. muu muus. apple cider.)

    November 12, 2021
  • Story

    not as you’d think

    / August 20, 2015

    It seems there should be a time when sorrow ends. When a door can close and an official Time of Death can be stamped. Mirrors hung with black fabric and all the clocks stopped. The End. All announced and definitive. Relationships don’t end that way though, do they? All trimmed up and tidy. Containable and compartmentalized. I’ve never been witness…

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    current plans. current mood.

    January 2, 2020

    Stitch Fix: We Tried It!

    April 2, 2020

    Noonday Trunk Show

    February 11, 2019
  • HomeLife,  HomeSchooling

    A Book List: Grades 5 to 8

    / August 19, 2015

    My friend Greta was asking me the other day which books I thought she should be certain her daughters read. I started making a list right there in my head for her. At first it was a girls only kind of list, since we were at our Girls Book Club and all.   And I guess you can still call…

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    five finds friday

    September 6, 2019

    Chasing the Christmas Chain

    December 12, 2019

    weekend ramble (the stillest of weekends)

    April 8, 2019
  • God's Pursuit of Me,  HomeLife,  Story

    in defense of female friendships . . .

    / August 18, 2015

    So there’s this part of me that’s afraid of friendships with women. You guys, I have been so burned before. Stack one time on top of another, on top of that, and I’m telling you – I know what the pain of betrayal and broken relationship feels like. Oh – it’s the bitterest of pills to swallow. It stings. It…

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    art

    Cognitive Drawing: A Timberdoodle Review

    July 8, 2021

    The Right Word.

    July 20, 2021

    Parenting Teens: Say Yes

    August 3, 2020
  • Field Trip,  HomeSchooling,  Keiglets

    On the Road: George Washington’s Mount Vernon

    / August 17, 2015

    Back in July we had the privilege of scooting up to Washington DC after our annual July Fourth pilgrimage. Mainly we wanted to visit my brother and his family.  One day there, however, we grabbed my sister-in-law and we all hopped right off to Mount Vernon, home place of the first president.  (And conveniently close to my brother’s home.) I…

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    five finds friday (ukuleles & queso)

    January 10, 2020

    Hey Clay: A Timberdoodle Review

    November 25, 2019

    In Praise of Small Homes

    December 14, 2020
  • HomeLife,  HomeSchooling

    use our school plans. seriously.

    / August 14, 2015

    I’ve decided to try the whole “balanced schedule” “year round school” adventure this go round. We started a few weeks ago, actually. (The kids and I called the first days our soft launch.  Just a little testing of the waters.) As I was prepping for the year I kept running into the same problem I have run into in previous…

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    Q Bitz Solo: A Timberdoodle Review

    April 14, 2021

    five finds friday (shower curtains, carnitas, earrings and how I’m either denying reality or crying – so little in between)

    April 30, 2021

    Oh hi. It’s me.

    November 12, 2022
  • Product Review

    Sound Block: A Review

    / August 13, 2015

    First Jo had one. Then Hilary. And, like a follower, I knew I wanted one too. Cool little wireless speakers. Just turn on the music on your phone and then, like a special kind of air magic, that same song would suddenly be playing at a louder volume through your little speaker. A speaker that you can carry anywhere.  The…

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    epiphany: the order of things

    May 9, 2019

    Five Finds Friday (jewelry, ridiculous emails & oranges)

    January 25, 2019

    weekend ramble (soccer starts & the sun is back)

    March 11, 2019
  • HomeLife

    the night watch

    / August 12, 2015

    It is two something in the a.m. There is nothing sleepy about me. I make a quick walk through the house to find two boys asleep in the living room. How do they sneak down the steps so stealthily? I check all the others – the drifters and the non-drifters. And these slumbering heads and hearts are full and innocent…

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    five finds friday (mustaches & embroidery)

    December 18, 2020

    weekend ramble (soccer starts & the sun is back)

    March 11, 2019
    felt

    Needle Felting: A Timberdoodle Review

    September 11, 2021
  • God's Pursuit of Me,  HomeLife

    songs and sundays

    / August 11, 2015

    Sunday we sang lyrics that found tears streaking down my face. (Which isn’t entirely unusual, of course.) You’re my one defense, my righteousness. O Lord – how I need you. And I was reminded as the pastor prayed  – Jesus IS the plan. Like – he’s not the back up plan. In fact, I guess I don’t have a back…

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    friday afternoon thoughts.

    February 17, 2023

    Snap.Shot.

    July 14, 2022

    Five Finds Friday (a new look, a story that stands the test of time, a t-shirt London designed)

    May 15, 2020
  • Field Trip,  HomeLife,  Keiglets,  Product Review

    The Adventure Center of Asheville

    / August 10, 2015

    Last week the kids and I took the kind of adventure you just want to share with everyone you know. (You guys – it is just so fun to have big kids!) This adventure involved helmets and heights and wires and harnesses and conquering fears and pulling together as a team. And it was pretty close to home too. The Adventure…

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    Losing Time: The Cost of Spontaneity This Week

    August 20, 2020

    parenting blues

    February 26, 2019

    I’m over here …

    November 3, 2020
  • HomeLife,  Riley Amber

    that peach crepes recipe

    / August 7, 2015

    I told you I would share our family’s peach crepes recipe. And being as it is peach season all over the south, I think now is a good time. When Riley was in elementary school, she attended a cooking class.  (The instructor held the class at her home and I honestly thought it was a model home that no one…

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    Five Finds Friday.

    September 4, 2020

    Frankincense – a little educating (but not by me)

    March 27, 2019

    five finds friday (ukuleles & queso)

    January 10, 2020
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