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Ordinary work, which is what most of us do most of the time, is ordained by God every bit as much as is the extraordinary. All work done for God is spiritual work and therefore not merely a duty but a holy privilege.
- Elisabeth Elliot

Field Trip

Guatemala: Day One

It seems I’ve hardly stopped moving since our plane ride from Guatemala ended and London picked us up late that night at the Greenville airport. (Pretty sure I sat behind…

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HomeLife

Grill. Master.

I should start with a confession. A Grill Master, I am not. A Grill Student? Eh, maybe. I mean, yes. I AM a student of the grill. Now. That’s what…

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HomeLife

one of those . . . weeks

You ever have a day that just u n r a v e l s ? Or, you know, an entire week? Heads are nodding, I’m assuming. Mine is. I…

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  • God's Pursuit of Me

    Read This

    / May 3, 2009

    Read this …… it’s better than anything I could put up here anyway. All this is flashy rhetoric about loving you.I never had a selfless thought since I was born.I am mercenary and self-serving through and through;I want God, you, all friends, merely to serve my turn. Peace, reassurance, pleasure are the goals I seek,I cannot crawl one inch outside…

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    the weekend ramble (it’s back)

    July 27, 2020

    that musical everyone loves.

    July 13, 2020

    evening thoughts or why I can’t get it together this month

    April 12, 2021
  • London Eli Scout

    The Peacemaker

    / April 23, 2009

    It is both curious and humbling to watch your children develop traits and characteristics on their own. London Eli is growing into quite the Peacemaker or Conflict-Avoider. She seems to be always keeping her eyes open for opportunities to smooth over situations between her siblings before conflicts get out of hand. At a recent lunch at the lodge, after Bergen…

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    five finds friday (otto’s birthday, boots I can’t wear & chili)

    May 22, 2020

    five finds friday. (the driving. the giving of thanks. the funny video. the perfect measuring cup.)

    December 6, 2019

    When Buying Local Is So Cute

    May 5, 2020
  • HomeLife

    What’s That?

    / April 21, 2009

    After church Sunday I had to stop at the grocery store and I knew every little person in the car was hungry and that by the time we got home it would be later than our normal lunch time. No one likes that – right? And I didn’t feel like creating some great meal nor did I want to drive…

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    parenting advice: for you & me

    April 1, 2021

    Five Finds Friday (this, that & the other, also blanket sweaters, food documentaries and college thoughts)

    January 18, 2019

    Weekend Ramble: Les Mis, A Kitten & Daylight Savings Time

    March 9, 2020
  • Bergen Hawkeye

    Happy Birthday Bergen

    / April 20, 2009

    Bergen turned four this weekend. Celebrating with Bergen Hawkeye . . . . – When you tell him “happy birthday” he responds by saying, “Happy Birthday!” – Kevin made him his own special Wolverine claws. Quite an undertaking, but well-appreciated. – After his birthday party, Bergen would thank his guests by shouting “THANK YOU FOR COMING” through a mouthful of…

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    Thanksgiving Tables …

    November 21, 2022

    weekend ramble (from morning Clemson adventure to evening fancy adventure)

    March 4, 2019

    WWII Graphic Novels: A Timberdoodle Review

    February 27, 2020
  • Chaos,  Keiglets

    This is My Day

    / April 17, 2009

    Everyone was playing happily outside. It was so nice and quiet inside. I should have known better. After all these years and all these kids . . . . I should have known better.

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    five finds friday (there’s beautiful bags and blast from the past soda and kind students)

    April 24, 2020

    five finds friday (lemon trees, Noonday parties, toasters, homemade mittens)

    February 7, 2020

    the weekend ramble (1. a mouse 2. a race 3. a whine)

    May 6, 2019
  • God's Pursuit of Me,  Piper Finn Willow

    Poop and Potential

    / April 13, 2009

    Every morning it is my privilege to enter little Willow’s room to give her a good morning kiss and hug and to see her sleepy, sweet eyes light up when I enter the room. And nearly every morning the same smell and the same words greet me as I enter her domain. “Poo Poo,” she declares, pointing to her itsy…

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    weekend ramble. (a weekend both peaceful & productive)

    September 28, 2020

    Stages & Seasons: From Diapers to Dissatisfaction

    November 16, 2022

    some tiny epiphanies via my quarantine education

    April 22, 2020
  • God's Pursuit of Me,  HomeLife,  Mosely Ella Claiborne

    Weeping May Occur

    / April 10, 2009

    I wrote this when Mosely was but a younger lass, moving from her beloved crib to her big girl bed. When reading the Bible I often find certain verses that I think apply directly to my own children. Sometimes I chuckle to myself at the verse’s real intention and the intent I jokingly like to apply to it. “Whoever loves…

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    five finds friday: Dickens and Twists and a cake baker and a cuddler

    February 15, 2019

    school planning over here …

    July 1, 2020

    Five Finds Friday (this, that & the other, also blanket sweaters, food documentaries and college thoughts)

    January 18, 2019
  • Story

    Never Say Never

    / April 8, 2009

    I always told my English students to avoid using cliches in their writing. I accused cliches of sounding predictable and boring. I encouraged my young aspiring writers to strive for fresh words and intelligence in their writing styles. Don’t misunderstand me here – I thoroughly believe that avoiding cliches in writing is still good advice. And working to find new…

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    this day. this life. some sort of a mood.

    August 7, 2019

    the winter feels

    January 11, 2023

    This Week. Feeling ALL the Pressures.

    December 28, 2020
  • Keiglets

    I Don’t Understand

    / April 6, 2009

    Why does this look like so much fun but imagining fifteen-year-old Riley behind the wheel seem so terrifying? (Okay, so I know the reasons why…….but isn’t it a little alarming how few blinks it takes to get from one stage to the next?)

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    books that work their own magic.

    March 5, 2019

    Q Bitz Solo: A Timberdoodle Review

    April 14, 2021

    five finds friday (the one about writing a book and my daughter going to college)

    November 20, 2020
  • God's Pursuit of Me,  HomeLife,  London Eli Scout

    Are You Happy?

    / April 5, 2009

    I wrote this piece when London was a toddler. Enjoy. “Are you happy, Mommy?” It’s a question my two and a half year old daughter asks repeatedly throughout the day. I’m not sure where she first heard it or why it has stuck in her mind so. Who can explain the vast intricacies of the toddler mind? Who would even…

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    45.

    May 1, 2019

    today. (teens are wonderful wonderful too – PSA)

    July 28, 2021

    weekend ramble (fly tying edition)

    January 28, 2019
  • Piper Finn Willow

    Little Creases

    / April 2, 2009

    The little creases on Piper Finn’s body are one of my favorite things about that kid. You know the creases I am talking about. The one at the wrist. The one at her elbow. The itiest creases surrounding each knuckle on her teeny hands. The crease where her ankle connects to her foot. Her neck creases. I love those little…

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    five finds friday. snow cream. snow tubing. London’s cute hair and laughter from junior high.

    February 12, 2021

    five finds friday (more feelings, an architect’s table I want to find and milk tea)

    July 23, 2021

    hello out there.

    March 19, 2020
  • HomeLife,  Story

    It’s Official – I Am A Parent

    / April 2, 2009

    This is an older piece from the early days ………… When was it that I officially became a parent? Was it when I adopted my first daughter? Was it when I gave birth to my second daughter? Or was it when I licked my finger and rubbed smeared banana off my then seven-year-old daughter’s chin? What about the time I…

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    parenting, continued

    March 21, 2019

    five finds friday (the right ice, a great kid, gorgeous views)

    June 14, 2019

    This Week. Feeling ALL the Pressures.

    December 28, 2020
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