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Ordinary work, which is what most of us do most of the time, is ordained by God every bit as much as is the extraordinary. All work done for God is spiritual work and therefore not merely a duty but a holy privilege.
- Elisabeth Elliot

HomeLife

The Right Word.

Decreasing numbers. First we were 8. Then, in the same year, we were 6. Last week a series of mixed events had us at about 4 for more than a…

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Bergen Hawkeye, Book Reviews, HomeLife, HomeSchooling

books that work their own magic.

This post is about a book. But it’s also about parenting and homeschooling and personality differences and what we can never fully understand and about getting out of the way…

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HomeLife

downhill: a commentary on this thing called aging.

My daughter texted me, asking if my upcoming birthday next month was the one where I would turn fifty. F I F T Y. My daughter thinks I am turning…

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  • HomeLife

    five finds friday (finn turns twelve, made for this podcast and mac & cheese)

    / August 30, 2019

    This week’s weather was so pleasant. Whether it’s right or wrong, weather affects me deeply. (Can I use the words “whether” and “weather” more often in two sentences?) It was a great week to be outside – and we sure tried to take advantage of that. Lake Jocassee and Pisgah trips this week. How perfectly lovely. funny Piper Finn turned…

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    The newest little human.

    November 18, 2019

    Hey Clay: A Timberdoodle Review

    November 25, 2019

    five finds friday (superstore, fly fishing, sloppy joes)

    January 3, 2020
  • Bergen Hawkeye,  Field Trip,  HomeLife,  Otto Fox Wilder

    Lake Jocassee with the Boys

    / August 29, 2019

    For birthdays, I love to give experience gifts. And for some time now, it’s been a bit of a tradition for the birthday boy or girl to receive an envelope and inside that envelope they will find instructions or tickets or an invitation to a future date with me. This past spring, the boys each received their birthday dates. One…

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    chipped nails and stacks of mail and practicing my mom skills all over again

    July 1, 2021

    thoughts. on this fragile world.

    April 16, 2019

    Five Finds Friday (tiny bags of bacon & I need a grits recipe for the Instant Pot)

    July 17, 2020
  • Book Reviews,  HomeLife,  Product Review

    five finds friday (my weakness for hair products and my friends Jane & Walter and my kids reading classic novels)

    / August 23, 2019

    I’ve had to do a LOT of writing for Travelers Rest Here this week and sometimes I can only write so much so I’m afraid over here had to suffer a little in the mean time. Let’s see – this week included: Driving places often. Per usual. But my attitude about it is improving. So – progress.Poison ivy smack dab…

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    five finds friday (berg keeps being funny, trip highlights and delicious drinks)

    May 21, 2021

    you’re worth it.

    January 24, 2019
    felt

    Needle Felting: A Timberdoodle Review

    September 11, 2021
  • God's Pursuit of Me

    Raising Girls: embracing help through Awaken

    / August 20, 2019

    I grew up as the only daughter in a house with three brothers. You know how you just assume certain things about your future? I just figured that if I grew up and got married and had kids – they would be boys. That’s not all I assumed, naturally.  But it’s part of how I pictured my adult life. But…

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    these days ….

    December 7, 2020

    the winter feels

    January 11, 2023

    Five Finds Friday (face cream, Community and Carlos)

    September 11, 2020
  • HomeLife,  HomeSchooling,  Keiglets

    five finds friday. (apple season is the best. and more.)

    / August 16, 2019

    Second week of school. I’m still struggling to find a decent writing life/work/teaching school balance. It is hard. Also hard? Managing money. You guys – August is a pricey month. That is all. funny London and I were driving home from her last driving school session. (!) And we were talking about all of the possibilities that independent driving will…

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    five finds friday (funny kids, garish sofas, filthy rocks, twinkling lights)

    March 29, 2019

    Hey Clay: A Timberdoodle Review

    November 25, 2019

    Losing Time: The Cost of Spontaneity This Week

    August 20, 2020
  • HomeLife

    I kissed bumble goodbye

    / August 12, 2019

    Yes, I’ve already written about it once. About how Bumble just isn’t for me.  How it just feels …. off. (I mean, all dating is pretty bizarre at this stage of life – right?) But I also have never actually used Bumble before – more like, just looked at the pictures. But then, you know, you have a day when…

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    parenting at the end of a school year. bless us all.

    May 20, 2019

    five finds friday (the worst jeans you’ll ever see, Otto says something funny and Dolly is the best)

    February 19, 2021

    Songs for Singin’: A Long Winded Okee Dokee Brothers Review & Tribute

    May 26, 2020
  • HomeLife

    five finds friday: “as long as we’ve got each other”

    / August 9, 2019

    First week back at school. It went pretty well actually. Pleasant mornings at the table. Decent attitudes accomplishing work. But – I am afraid that a portion of the ease came from the fact that our math curriculum has not arrived yet so we have been doing simple review games this week for that subject. Sigh. funny I mentioned we…

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    Quarantine Made Me Do It

    March 26, 2020

    five finds friday (may is sort of mean, also there’s a lot about potatoes in this one)

    May 3, 2019

    Five Finds Friday (meatballs, Scrabble, really odd names for kids)

    January 31, 2020
  • HomeLife,  HomeSchooling,  Keiglets

    this day. this life. some sort of a mood.

    / August 7, 2019

    We started school this week. Which feels sad now in August but should feel pretty happy come May. I have three high school students. THREE. I feel as if I need to shout everything I say today. It all feels monumental. Or something. I’ve been saying to the kids all day – I’m in some kind of a mood today.…

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    The July Grove Collaborative Giveaway

    July 11, 2017

    the weekend ramble (it’s back)

    July 27, 2020

    five finds friday: dutch babies & my babies all grown

    December 2, 2022
  • HomeLife

    tuck in

    / August 5, 2019

    Tuck in with toddlers was short and sweet. Once upon a time. A bedtime story. If I was feeling generous – two. A hug. Maybe a sip of water and then see ya’ tomorrow, baby. Bedtimes with teens and pre-teens is another story altogether. Seldom do I feel as genuinely overwhelmed with this mega task of parenting as I do…

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    love. (for a concert and a band.)

    February 20, 2019
    felt

    Needle Felting: A Timberdoodle Review

    September 11, 2021

    Six Steps to Hiking & Adventuring With Kids

    July 3, 2019
  • Framily,  HomeLife

    thirty years of July Fourthing.

    / July 31, 2019

    Yes. Totally aware that it is practically August. And I’m fine with writing a post about July Fourth.  This year we think we calculated that it was Year Thirty for our annual July Fourth at the Farm. That’s kind of big deal. What started out three decades ago as a couple of neighboring families and friends taking a tubing trip…

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    Juliet’s School of Possibilities: A Book Review

    September 17, 2019

    five finds friday. (the driving. the giving of thanks. the funny video. the perfect measuring cup.)

    December 6, 2019

    that musical everyone loves.

    July 13, 2020
  • HomeLife,  Keiglets

    close to midnight/ sisters

    / July 29, 2019

    Being a mom is full of contradicting thoughts. Like – nearing midnight, I hear laughter and quiet, rightfully happy chatter from the bedroom my three daughters share with one another. You. Guys. Three girls – three sisters – share ONE small bedroom.  They are literally stacked in their like camp bunks. A triple bunk, actually. An incredibly cute and darling…

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    that magic moment

    December 19, 2022

    five finds friday. (an unusual candle holder & a great movie)

    July 26, 2019

    Five Finds Friday (this, that & the other, also blanket sweaters, food documentaries and college thoughts)

    January 18, 2019
  • God's Pursuit of Me,  HomeLife,  Keiglets

    five finds friday. (an unusual candle holder & a great movie)

    / July 26, 2019

    We start back to school in August. So it feels true when I ask – did I even have a summer? I mean, yes – sure. It was fantastic. But it was FULL. London and I both said the craziest thing this week. We said something insane like, “It’ll be good when school starts again. Life will maybe slow down…

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    parenting, continued

    March 21, 2019

    thoughts. on this fragile world.

    April 16, 2019

    five finds friday (ankle boots, shaved ice, another great book)

    May 17, 2019
  • Framily,  HomeLife,  Mosely Ella Claiborne

    love. via sour dough bread.

    / July 25, 2019

    I love my kids. But that’s nothing unusual – right? Moms love their kids. It’s kind of our job. But you know what is extra special and humbling and wonderful? When other people love your kids. When other humans in your life nourish your kid’s strengths and encourage her talents. That’s lovely. That’s beautiful. Mosely loves to bake bread. She…

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    Hey Clay: A Timberdoodle Review

    November 25, 2019

    five finds friday

    September 6, 2019

    five finds friday (mustaches & embroidery)

    December 18, 2020
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