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Ordinary work, which is what most of us do most of the time, is ordained by God every bit as much as is the extraordinary. All work done for God is spiritual work and therefore not merely a duty but a holy privilege.
- Elisabeth Elliot

  • HomeLife

    And she’s all new for the new year.

    January 3, 2014 /

    Ta-da! These last two weeks it’s been silent here on the blog. Primarily because it was the holidays and I wanted to hang out with my family and not with my screen. And partly because I had a few blog tricks up my sleeve and I wanted them all to be accomplished before I started writing again. And here they are. My kind and generous husband lent his creative skill to my page here and has helped me spruce up the look a lot. I’m quite pleased. I’m anxious to get back to a regular routine – of both writing and standard wake up times and meals and such.  It…

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    Losing Time: The Cost of Spontaneity This Week

    August 20, 2020

    weekend ramble (break week is over, we threw axes, I want the sunshine to stay)

    February 25, 2019

    Five Finds Friday (Saylor’s reading and Ryder got a haircut)

    September 18, 2020
  • HomeLife

    next ….

    December 30, 2013 /

    New and exciting changes for this blog are just around the corner.   Wait for it ……….    

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    The Deal With Me & Low Cost Flights

    November 24, 2022

    Grill. Master.

    July 7, 2020

    five finds friday (except it’s four because I ran out of time)

    June 28, 2019
  • HomeLife

    the overflow

    December 24, 2013 /

    For her birthday Mosely wanted to have two friends over to spend the night. The next day the girls played all day without arguments or fussing. They graciously included younger siblings in all their games. Together they cycled through playing with the new paper dolls to playing house to pretending to be kings and queens to Legos to playing school to stuffed animals to the little critters that live in their doll house. I was downstairs baking cookies when I thought I heard singing. Stopping at the foot of the stairs so I wouldn’t disturb the moment, I recorded a bit of what I heard. It’s quiet, but it’s the…

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    Frye boots

    Five Finds Friday (touring college and of course – boots & tea)

    September 17, 2021
    sunset

    Time is not my enemy.

    November 9, 2021

    These Is My Words: A Book Review

    November 4, 2019
  • Mosely Ella Claiborne

    Happy Birthday Mosely.

    December 23, 2013 /

    Mosely is officially ten, no matter how often Kevin keeps telling her she’s not allowed to reach the double digits. She used to be one. All smelling like baby formula and looking like a living cartoon with those enormous cheeks and liquidy brown eyes and soft fluffs of hair. Last night she blew out her ten little mismatched candles on her chocolate cupcakes with peanut butter frosting.  (She is a creature of habit – it’s always chocolate cake for her.) (I’m still using the exact same chocolate cake recipe that came from my friend’s mother – a friend I have known since seventh grade!) She celebrated with her sweet little…

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    she’s right, he knows her name.

    December 3, 2019

    downhill: a commentary on this thing called aging.

    June 29, 2020

    Songs for Singin’: A Long Winded Okee Dokee Brothers Review & Tribute

    May 26, 2020
  • Keiglets,  Piper Finn Willow

    In the Rearview Mirror …..

    December 20, 2013 /

    One thing I love about blogging is that it’s as if my memories are all filed away neatly and in chronological order. Even the memories I have forgotten. These days we’re living right now with kids seldom involve poop and spit up and although I can distinctly recall the smell and the horror of both, I mostly spend my current days not really thinking about the poopy spit up days. Which is all to say – it all moves so very quickly. But this same month, four years ago, life looked a lot different. And since I had the pleasure of looking back – I’m going to invite you to…

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    five finds friday (freckles, strawberries, plants)

    April 19, 2019

    try this at home

    April 7, 2020

    the burrow: a fireplace update

    October 22, 2019
  • HomeLife

    before I sleep …..

    December 19, 2013 /

    The count down to Christmas always comes as a shocking surprise. And the minutes and the weeks fly by and I fall into bed most nights wondering what on earth happened to my day. Magic tricks and snapping fingers and these days are evaporating. I don’t have the mental capacity to string together a tidy post but I do feel the urge to ramble on a bit. We spent a lovely morning enjoying the company of Oma and Papa Dale. We used our gnome idea but instead of a gnome we placed a little red cardinal in a tree. (Virginia’s state bird.) We named ours Virginia and the matching red…

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    Five Finds Friday (a whole lot of photos)

    November 6, 2020

    five finds friday. (apple season is the best. and more.)

    August 16, 2019

    weekend ramble (from morning Clemson adventure to evening fancy adventure)

    March 4, 2019
  • HomeLife,  Keiglets

    Gnome For The Holidays

    December 17, 2013 /

    We live here. Our children’s grandparents live there. It is sometimes difficult to connect in a daily manner from state to state with one another. This weekend we celebrated an early Christmas at our place with Papaw and Grandma. And we gave them a little gift in an attempt to bridge the gap of all those miles between Ohio and South Carolina. Meet Columbia and Columbus. They’re gnomes. They match one another exactly. (And their names coordinate – get it?  The capitals of each state.) We all composed a little rhyme that set up the story of the gnome twins. Then the kids and the grandparents walked along the driveway…

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    how do you do it?

    September 4, 2019

    two decades. the last was the growing up. the next will be the growing out.

    January 22, 2020

    five finds friday (avett. curl cream. views.)

    September 25, 2020
  • HomeLife,  Keiglets

    it’s a numbers game.

    December 11, 2013 /

    Otto can count to about twenty before he loses all sense of reality. After that his numbers sound hilariously complicated. “I love you more than forty two million two twelve eighteen six ninety pancakes.” (That’s a lot of love, folks.) I’m going to borrow his math skills for the night. Today my name (if you know me as “Momma” or “Mommy” or “Mom”) was said six thousand fourteen two nine twenty nineteen times. At least. I believe I was touched by small hands, oh so many small hands, about eighty seventeen four thirteen times. The volume level in our home was about  sixteen nine thirty three eighty times too loud…

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    I just want to do it all.

    October 21, 2020

    friday afternoon thoughts.

    February 17, 2023

    parenting, continued

    March 21, 2019
  • Otto Fox Wilder

    instead of this ……. that –

    December 10, 2013 /

    I don’t think I’ll tell you about how Otto Fox threw up at lunch today. Instead, let’s just ponder how cute he looks in a fall sweater.

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    this day. this life. some sort of a mood.

    August 7, 2019

    five finds friday (ryder dresses up & good friends are worth everything)

    February 1, 2019

    making music (and art) accessible

    February 10, 2020
  • Field Trip,  HomeLife

    The Christmas Chain Took Us To Bethlehem

    December 9, 2013 /

    It’s hard to focus on school this month. This Christmas season feels shorter since Thanksgiving landed later in November. The kids and I just want to play and craft and bake and we don’t want to add or memorize or diagram sentences. (And this gloomy cold rain is not helping our (I mean, mine) attitudes either.) But we keep trying to persevere anyway. Only a few days late, we hung up our traditional Christmas chain. And so far we’ve watched a Christmas movie with snacks, decorated our tree (finally!) and this weekend we whipped up those infamous monster cookies and took in a new local event to our family –…

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    five finds friday. (an unusual candle holder & a great movie)

    July 26, 2019

    one of those . . . weeks

    September 8, 2021

    evening thoughts or why I can’t get it together this month

    April 12, 2021
  • Chaos,  HomeLife

    Thursday. From My House to Yours.

    December 6, 2013 /

    This morning I woke up and I thought, “I just don’t want to teach school today.” It’s certainly not the first time that I’ve thought that. Or thought similarly on other topics. “I just don’t want to do laundry/cook meals/get out of bed/wash my hair.” And most mornings when I feel that way, I just do what I have to do anyway. Like the rest of the world. I don’t want to make dinner, but I do it anyway.  I don’t want to get out of bed but I do anyway.  (Sometimes I let the laundry and the hair washing slide.) But today, over a breakfast of Whatever Any Kid…

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    five finds friday. (apple season is the best. and more.)

    August 16, 2019

    just recounting a day . . .

    June 20, 2017

    The July Grove Collaborative Giveaway

    July 11, 2017
  • HomeLife,  Story

    Just one more Virginia post. Just one more.

    December 4, 2013 /

    I know, I know. It’s just a place. It’s just a state. I’ve written this before, but after a trip to Virginia it takes days to shake the mountain scent off of me. And as I acclimate once again, I write. It’s how I process. And so I jotted most of these words earlier this summer in a journal, after my last bout with Leaving-Virginia-itis. It’s still true so I’m sending it through today in my current bout of Leaving-Virginia-itis. ——– Can you love a place and know it’s not for you? Of course you can. It’s surreal to visit your own former house as a guest. Displaced.  But comfortable.…

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    that musical everyone loves.

    July 13, 2020

    teens. parenting them.

    December 30, 2020

    five finds friday (the one about writing a book and my daughter going to college)

    November 20, 2020
  • HomeLife,  Story

    carry me back to Virginia

    December 3, 2013 /

    Thanksgiving found us traveling north to get to The South. (Actually – we drove north, directionally.  Only north.  And east.  But no five years of South Carolina living can convince me that Virginia isn’t more southern than this state that boasts the name “south” in its title.) Anyway. We headed to the farm. And – like always – nostalgia washed over me the very instant our maroon shuttle ascended the ridge through the woods. It’s the driveway. It gets me every time. When I was fifteen and at passenger-only status I loved this driveway. When I was sixteen and driving my brother’s hand-me-down silver hatchback Toyota Tercel I’d stop at…

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    from the cabin: Bergen Hawkeye at Lost Valley

    June 25, 2019

    today. (teens are wonderful wonderful too – PSA)

    July 28, 2021

    here we go …

    February 3, 2023
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