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Ordinary work, which is what most of us do most of the time, is ordained by God every bit as much as is the extraordinary. All work done for God is spiritual work and therefore not merely a duty but a holy privilege.
- Elisabeth Elliot

Bergen Hawkeye

from the cabin: Bergen Hawkeye at Lost Valley

He doesn’t know I am watching him. My fourteen year old son. I’m on the porch, settled on the porch swing. Basha blanket from home wrapped around me because of…

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HomeLife, Otto Fox Wilder

weekend ramble (fly tying edition)

It was a full one. A Go & Do sort of weekend. One of my favorite Go & Do’s of the entire weekend was spent with Otto. His Christmas gift…

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HomeLife, Product Review, Young Living

Frankincense – a little educating (but not by me)

It’s been more than I year since I signed up with Young Living and started down a road of trying to proactively learn more about essential oils. Truthfully, in most…

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  • HomeLife

    Friday’s Movement.

    / June 1, 2015

    The front door crashed open before breakfast was even on the table. “Mom.  Mom.  Mom,” Mosely was rushing to my side, breathless. “Prince Caspian won’t get up.  He can’t stand up.” And it was Friday. And the day was tilting. I ran out to the goat’s pen and surveyed the situation. It didn’t look good. Poor little Caspian was suffering…

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    April 8, 2019
  • HomeLife,  Keiglets

    overheard truth

    / May 29, 2015

    And the sister said, “Do you know what we have during this sad time?” The other one asked, “What?  What do we have?” “One another.”  

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  • HomeLife

    doing the best I can

    / May 28, 2015

    And I want to gather them all to me, like little chicks in a nest, and pull them close and look into their eyes and whisper, “You guys.  You guys.  Mommy is doing the best she can.” Isn’t that what all we mommas want to say? We’re doing the best we can. And we know, my goodness we know, that…

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    Lake Jocassee with the Boys

    August 29, 2019

    Lists: The Only Way I Ever (Sometimes) Get Stuff Done

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    February 25, 2019
  • Bergen Hawkeye,  HomeLife,  HomeSchooling

    too much knowledge.

    / May 27, 2015

    Maybe this kid knows too much. At bedtime – of course at bedtime, it’s always at bedtime – Bergen Hawkeye comes shooting down the stairs.  (You can never say that boy walks down the stairs.  He just doesn’t.) He sails into the living room and exhales. “Mom!” he has that look in his eyes.  “There’s a cockroach in the girls’…

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    June 25, 2019

    My Friend Mary & The Beauty of Showing Up

    April 23, 2019

    five finds friday (except it’s four because I ran out of time)

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  • Field Trip

    the blue ghost fairies

    / May 26, 2015

      Last week I got a text from Hannah telling us what we needed to do on Sunday night.     So, you know, we did what Hannah said. And what Hannah said to do was this: Get in your car and drive to DuPont Forest in North Carolina. Get out of your car and walk in the woods. Stand…

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    weekend ramble (soccer starts & the sun is back)

    March 11, 2019

    just recounting a day . . .

    June 20, 2017

    Hey Clay: A Timberdoodle Review

    November 25, 2019
  • HomeLife,  Riley Amber

    Meeting Maddox

    / May 25, 2015

    I woke Saturday morning and glanced at my phone. Like 14 missed calls and 13 texts and oops – I guess I should have stayed awake all night or something. Riley – our oldest daughter – was letting me know she was on the way to the hospital to give birth to her baby. Yes.  To give birth to a…

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    parenting reminds me I need Jesus

    November 26, 2019

    Snap.Shot.

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    February 15, 2019
  • HomeSchooling

    weighing in on year-round school. and changing up its name.

    / May 22, 2015

    I’m thinking about school for next year. Because I’m kind of over thinking about school for this year. I have been entertaining thoughts about year-round school. This article really spoke my language about why I think the schedule could fit our family. I love the idea of more frequent breaks instead of drudging through until summer for this giant long…

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    epiphany: the order of things

    May 9, 2019

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  • God's Pursuit of Me

    my psalm.

    / May 21, 2015

    I cannot answer the question of why I signed up for this class at our church. Redemption Group. It’s offered once or twice a year I think.  I’ve seen it in the bulletin off and on for a while, my friends have led the class before.  I’ve heard of it.  And sometime in February I guess – I started taking…

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    Guatemala: Day One

    March 1, 2023

    mid-week ramble. is that a thing?

    September 3, 2020

    five finds friday – (Congaree, more soup, another Otto saying & sunshine)

    April 12, 2019
  • HomeLife

    a funny story because we need a little funny, am I right?

    / May 20, 2015

    Who needs something funny today? Okay – I need something funny. Here. A funny blog post. _____ Last weekend I did something out of the ordinary.  Something kind of crazy.  Something I haven’t done in a very long time. I went to the ……. mall! I know.  I know.  It is completely out of character for me. But I needed…

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    how do you do it?

    September 4, 2019

    five finds friday (my weakness for hair products and my friends Jane & Walter and my kids reading classic novels)

    August 23, 2019

    I just want to do it all.

    October 21, 2020
  • Chaos,  HomeLife

    for all the days you feel like this

    / May 19, 2015

    There was this morning that I spent pretty much entirely in bed. My friend delivered gallons of farm fresh milk and Otto dropped an egg on the floor and I stood in the kitchen with counters crowded with bowls for yogurt and granola that hadn’t yet happened and I cried and she said, “Can I take your kids to play…

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    back of a book, on the porch

    October 2, 2019

    five finds friday (fried dough, there is no fashion to be found, the woods are still magical)

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    April 12, 2019
  • God's Pursuit of Me

    perhaps today

    / May 18, 2015

    I was young once. About a million years ago. I think I almost remember it. And back then I remember hearing people – old, crazy, out of touch people – saying stuff like, “I look forward to heaven” and “Goodness, I wish Jesus would return soon”. Back then, Young Lacey, Not Suffered Any Yet Lacey, would listen to those people…

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    Snap.Shot.

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  • Bergen Hawkeye,  HomeLife

    Hawkeye Thoughts

    / May 15, 2015

    His feet are filthy. As in, gross dirty.  Those weird little lines of crud that only a pair of Keens can outline so distinctly. Those ragged little beasts are currently snuggled up against mine as I lie in bed tip tap typing away. I should move my feet before my size eights are contaminated by his size fives, but I…

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    December 30, 2020
  • HomeLife

    And Then There Were Goats.

    / May 14, 2015

    On New Year’s Day this year our family gathered around the long farm table that takes up our entire dining room. (That somehow seems like a long time ago.) And we made a big old list of goals for 2015. Of course we wrote them on a chalkboard door in our house because that’s what we do. We’re not exactly…

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    July 16, 2019

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